Saturday, November 19, 2011
meditation
Thursday, July 11, 2013
enlightenment 2.0
Thursday, January 16, 2014
club med
Here's the link to the picture and news article of a public hearing on San Onofre nuclear power plant where Grace served as a panelist :
Wednesday, May 24, 2017
mindfulness
Saturday, September 20, 2014
happy birthday suite 57

This requires me bringing 3 others to get mine free. Come with me and I'll split the check with you so we all get an equivalent of 25% discount.
So what's to make of this middle of nowhere, obscure 57th birthday of insignificance of mine? If I am to pick up that jocular line I made on my 55th birthday (http://cdwong.blogspot.com/
Thursday, September 21, 2017
60
But it's not all about you, you over-bashful, self-conscious dude! Here are four different flavors of birthday celebration I experienced in one past week:
The serene
A delightful night of peace and quiet sharing with my "Club Med" extended family of 5+ years.
That gift, live bodies if they were, would help cure the chronical foot problem I have by accompanying me strolling through Southern Californian beaches each day, as I joked with my boyish friends online.
The unexpected
On Saturday morning I noticed he had tried to call me through a chat line then left a well wishing note after I failed to answer. I called him right back and had a short but precious chat with him, a pleasant surprise that can only seem so timely for a lifetime friendship.
So I just turned 60, how does that feel? Not much really, in comparison to when I turned 50 (half one-hundred, that's a shocker), or even 55 (when I discovered for the first time I could be categorized as senior citizen). Or maybe my premeditation on yet another epical age to come months before has done its job of defanging that the advent of it has lost its sting on me.
60 is a round-up number In Chinese calendar, and we also like to call it the year of turning "easy ears" (耳順), in contrast to 50 when one begins to "reckon what on earth am I here for" (知天命), both quoting from Confucius.
If I were to interpret "easy ears" to mean "whatever my wife says is like music to my ears" ("yes dear") and combine it with the reckoning of what my life's for when turning 50, then I should say by now I should have realized that the purpose of my life is to take whatever my wife says as music to my ears.
That in turn would be music to my wife's ears, wouldn't it?
May we all find our turn-arounds in life, times to rekindle our love, renew our vows, re-adjust our priorities... to relax, regroup, and relaunch, into the next round of life, all the time!
Friday, July 12, 2019
interfaith meditation walk
The event was held at a lake park just north of downtown LA. I met and picked up Grace--one of my fellow "Club Med" weekly meditation group friends in San Clemente--and her husband Kris at a local Costco parking lot and headed north.
If you want to experience what perfect traffic on LA freeway is like, pick 4th of July to drive. No stop-and-go, crawling or tailgate hugging, not even a single slowdown, but smooth-as-silk driving all the way, reaching our destination 60 miles away in less than 50 minutes that could take an hour and a half during normal weekday rush hour.
The Hindu station referenced Mahatma Gandhi's effort and skill in achieving justice while building harmonious relationships among people in community.
The Christian station cited the New Testament's metaphor of eyes, hands, heart and mind serving in harmony within one body of Christ, recognizing that all components of the body are needed for health and vitality.
The Jewish station, represented by a young Lecturer and "Diversity Consultant for Organic Communication" at UCLA, relayed the story in the Torah that finds the people of Israel dwelling in community, with tents respecting individual space, yet arranged to be part of the unified whole.
And the Buddhist, the Humanist, the Baha'i stations...
A humanist/atheist: "Surveys consistently show we atheists are the most despised people in the US... even though our humanist beliefs dictate us to live by high ethical and moral standards... It looks to me our only hope of reconciliation with the religious people will have to go through progressives like those of you I see here today."
A mother who brought her two young children (one in a stroller) to the walk: "Though I left my Christian faith then later came back to the church myself, I want to bring my children to environments like this so they can see, feel and smell the air of diversity for themselves as they grow."
Sunday, August 2, 2020
a hectic fall
Maybe too anxious, I forgot the steep slope that led down our community exit that I always needed to maneuver through first, and careless, for I had been riding down this slope so many times before, I didn't apply much brake, and instead of rolling over the speed bump I swerved to its side to bypass it... next thing I knew I saw my wheels hit the seam between the curb and the pavement and start to rattle and wobble and I reckoned I was losing control of my bike and decided to let go the handlebars and fell to the ground...
They called the ambulance for me and minutes later I was in the Emergency Room of Mission Hospital. They took an X-ray on my left shoulder and a CT-scan on my head and left me resting there for a few hours before returning with the result: A broken collarbone on my left shoulder and a minor concussion on my head. Neither was too serious and should heal themselves in days, they said. They then gave me a prescription for pain-killer medicine and a sling for shoulder support and dispatched me home.
I had a couple nights of very bad sleep not only due to the broken shoulder but also the left wrist and fingers that were red hot swollen and excruciatingly painful. I also experienced morning headaches and dizziness and nausea at times.
But these gradually let up in the following days, to the point when I visited my primary care doctor a week later for followup check, as suggested by the ER staff, I spent about equal time catching up with him (he's been our family doctor for decades and we don't get to see each other except on "special occasions" like this) as talking about the accident and its after-effect on me.
My sense of recovery and well being got even stronger a few days later when I visited an orthopedist referred by my primary care doctor. As a precaution, and to know exactly how my injury was and had been healing, he ordered another X-ray on my shoulder, as well as an MRI on my wrist.
He called me the next day with a somewhat alarming tone: The X-ray report he just saw showed the fracture of my collarbone was much worse than he originally thought, the bone was split far apart and out of alignment, a situation that called for immediate surgery the sooner the better.
It was a minor surgery--as the doctors liked to say, comparing it to knee replacement or open heart surgeries, I suppose. I was put under general anesthesia, though, and slept through the two-hour operation. What the doctor did was put in a metal plate, drill holes on my bones, fasten the plate and bridge the bones together again.
Thursday, October 20, 2022
meditation quotes
Every morning, when I open my meditation app (yes now they have apps for everything) for its timer function, it pops up with a quote for the day. I ignored them at first, but then I find some I do like:
– John Lennon
– Eric Butterworth
"Our journey is about being more deeply involved in life and yet, less attached to it."
– Ram Dass
"The secret to living well is: eat half, walk double, laugh triple, and love without measure."
– Tibetan Proverbs
– Voltaire
"The sun will rise and set regardless. What you do with its light is up to you."
– Alex Elle
"Do what you can, with what you have, where you are."
– Theodore Roosevelt
"Reminder: a sign of growth is being okay with not being okay."
– Yung Pueblo
"Write your sad times in sand; write your good times in stone."
– George Bernard Shaw
"Love will sometimes look like letting go."
– Alex Elle
"If you have a garden and a library, you have everything you need."
– Cicero
“Perfection is achieved not when there is nothing more to add, but when there is nothing left to take away.”
– Antoine de Saint-Exupery
"The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the greatest intention."
– Kahlil Gibran
"In every religion, there's love, yet love has no religion."
– Rumi
"Everyone shines, given the right lighting."
"All things must pass."
– George Harrison
Sunday, August 7, 2022
the religion of man
Rabindranath Tagore (1861-1941) was a world renowned Indian poet, writer, philosopher, and the first non-European to win the Nobel Prize in Literature in 1913. "The Religion of Man" is a compilation of his lectures given at Oxford University in May 1930 that deals with the universal themes of divine experience, illumination, God and spirituality. The following are highlights and notes (in blue Italic) I take from the book.
Monday, January 24, 2022
puli
Take a high speed train to Taichung, a 50 minute highway drive east, through a few tunnels across a hilly region, you are there.
A Foreign Literature Department professor from the University nearby decided to contribute to the humanity element of the community by opening up a bookstore with bed-and-breakfast services seven years ago. It has since provided a safe hangout for local kids and comfortable accommodation for international travelers/bird-watchers all year round.

Renowned for its fine water, a wine factory has long been in operation here since early Japanese colonial days. Its Shaoxing Wine (紹興酒), a remake of a name brand rice wine from mainland China, had been festivity favorites for decades before foreign imports took over the markets.


















